This morning
we were all dead tired! I was excited to see more of Paris, but a part of me
felt ready to be in Italy—I think it's because I just miss meeting and getting
to know people...when I'm living in Italy and learning the language, I'll have
more of an opportunity to learn about people (which is pretty much my favorite
past time) and build friendships. That said, everything about today was
absolutely amazing, and it ended more perfectly than I could have imagined. :)
Today is actually a holiday in Paris, so while a lot of museums were closed,
there was still a TON going on! There was a big rally for the current president
of France (ya know, the kind of protest-thing they tell tourists to avoid), and
we got a free French Flag and T-shirt out of it :)
Our first
stop was the Eiffel Tower—I’m trying to decide exactly how to describe it. It’s
hard. Everything is hard to describe here because words just don't do the city
justice—there’s a different feeling in Paris. I think it's the fact that
culture, history, and pride oozes from every corner in the city. That mixed
with the pure excitement of everyone visiting and taking pictures with statues,
buildings, artwork, and monuments that they've only seen on TV or in books. The
Asians, though, seem keener on taking pictures with me than any statue (haha) several
more asked me to take pictures with them today—it still catches me off guard,
but I'm seriously starting to consider that I chose the wrong continent for my
field study. Not to worry though, I got a picture with quite the attractive
Frenchmen as well! Shawn did get some pictures with French girls—the problem is
that he is an AWFUL judge of age! He started hitting on two 14 year old girls
and asked them to take a picture; they offered to show us where something was,
so we all started walking together. That's when Shawn found out how old they
were haha, so I took the reins and just started chatting with them instead, so
that he could avoid anymore awkwardness...oh mercy.
The Asians here love me haha, but this one definitely conned me into giving him my French flag, so maybe it wasn't my blonde hair that caught his eye after all... |
A picture with a true Frenchman in front of the Eiffel Tower, bucket list check! |
We've had
some difficulty with transportation after the Eiffel Tower. For starters, we
couldn't figure out how to rent bikes; there are these stations where you can
rent bikes for the day—and it's free for the first 30 minutes, but our debit
cards weren't working. Then, we spent over an hour in the train station trying
to figure out how to get to Rome. We were planning on taking a night train, but
it got cancelled, and all the Eurorail seats were full for the train from Paris
to Rome. Luckily we found an alternative route, unfortunately that means that
we leave at 6:30am one day and get to Rome 24 hours later—the little joys of
traveling :) Ah well though, we may have a couple nice layovers in some random
towns, and end up finding some brilliantly amazing sites!
After buying
tickets, we decided to go back to the Louvre and relax outside. I made a seat
out of a random platform, while Shawn and Hayden rested up aways away against
one of the glass pyramids. I was people watching and taking random pictures
when a couple—around my age—caught my eye, mainly because the girl was wearing
a skirt that was pretty much identical to mine, except for the color. I kept
watching them and their seemingly heated conversation. They were going back and
forth for a couple minutes—clearly upset—and, all of a sudden, the girl turned
and stalked off in the opposite direction, obviously trying to put as much
distance between herself and him. He followed her, not saying anything, just
staying near her. Right when the thought crossed my mind that it was sweet that—even
though they had been arguing—he didn't immediately leave her, he walked away in
the other direction. My attention focused on her—as she realized he had left.
She walked into a big open space in the Louvre, crouched down, and kind of
bowed her head between her legs—it looked like she was crying...
Without
really thinking anything through, I got off the platform and started walking
over to her. I wasn't sure what my plan was, and figured that even if I’d had
one, there was a pretty good chance that she didn't speak English anyway. So, I
crouched down next to her, put my hand on her back, and after a couple seconds
asked, "Are you okay?" I think it surprised her to hear my voice, she
probably thought I was her boyfriend at first. She looked up and me and kind of
shrugged, so I asked her if there was anything I could do—still unsure if she
understood me. Turns out she did. She said no, but was clearly upset. I gave
her one of those 'understanding smiles' and said that I was sorry. She, unaware
that I had seen anything, told me that she had been arguing with her boyfriend
and that that was why she was crouching down. I was a little relieved that she
spoke English. I'm not even sure when the conversation changed, but we just
started talking about random things. She told me that her name was Alexandrine.
She spoke nearly perfect English, but was born and raised in France—she’d done
a lot of traveling and had really improved her accent. We laughed about the
fact that she lived in France and had been to New York, and that I lived in the
States and hadn't. She told me how she worked in fashion, and I told her a bit
about myself. I told her that I felt I was missing out on a huge portion of
French culture because I hadn't been able to meet many French people... We sat
there—crouched—for five or ten minutes before standing to continue our
conversation. She told me that she wanted me to meet her boyfriend; she looked
around for a minute and spotted him sitting near some stairs. I walked over
with her; Shawn and Hayden—who had obviously been worriedly watching me
(because they thought she may have been a gypsy)—walked over as well.
We all
introduced ourselves and had a great conversation, we were all laughing—everyone
that is, except her boyfriend, who was very nice, but—Alexandrine explained—was
a true Frenchman, and in tradition, he did not smile (or speak English. :)
Shawn joked about wanting to kiss a French girl (I use the term 'joked'
loosely) and told her she should help me kiss a French boy. Her boyfriend
understood that and offered up himself; rather than responding how any American
girl would, she seemed keen on the idea as well. "Yeah, you can kiss him!
This is Paris, the city of love—we don't care about things like that." I
just laughed, mainly because I had no idea how to respond, mmm 'no thanks'? She
was such a fun person! She is well traveled, spoke 3 languages, and had a
passion for life. We asked them to take pictures with us; Alexandrine tried to
teach me how to take pictures like a French girl aka: no smiling. I failed
epically. :D Shawn, Hayden and I had to get going, but she showed us the best
spots in Paris before we did. She told us it was a pleasure to meet us and that
we weren't like typical Americans because, "You want to travel and you
care about history. And you're not fat." Ha I hope that's not a stereotype
held by all French people about Americans, but I have a feeling that it is. She
told me that she believed in destiny and that we meet the people we do for a
reason. She thanked me for coming over to talk to her, told me that she could
tell I had a good heart, and then offered to show me around her store in Paris
the next day! Sounds like a plan! Oh, and I got two kisses from a Frenchman!
One on each cheek! Perfect.
Today was the
best day by far, I can't help it, I loved meeting people and getting to know
them. I felt like we really bonded in that short amount of time; Alexandrine
and I exchanged information and decided to stay in touch. And to top off a good
thing with a strawberry (I don't like cherries), Shawn and Hayden were taking
pictures the whole time! These are by far my favorite pictures of the entire
trip thus far—sentimental value, I suppose :) And here they are:People watching at the Louvre |
Hayden and Shawn relaxing outside the Louvre |
This was after we'd talked for a bit, she was writing down her name and email address |
My attempt at taking a picture like a French person, without smiling |
you can never know about your own destiny:
are the people you meet there to play a part in your own destiny,
or do you exist just to play a role in theirs?
Libba Bray
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Kier it looks like you are having a blast! I wish I was with you!:)
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